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Yadira’s Story
My name is Yadira. I am seventeen years old and I have been going to Girls Inc. three or four times a week since I was twelve years old.
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Alum Graduates from UNO with Business Degree
Alum Kelsey sent us a graduation photo and the nicest thank you note:
What makes life’s successes so great is when you have a wonderful group of people supporting you along the way. I would like to truly thank you, your team, and everyone involved for your support personally as a girl growing into a young woman and as a student. This past December I graduated from the University of Nebraska at Omaha with a degree in Business Administration. The beauty of this story is that I had people like you (Girls Inc.) that have been empowering me to be STRONG, SMART & BOLD since the age of seven. Thank you Girls Inc. for your contribution to my life that not only impacted me while I was a member, but also now and in the future. Thank you Girls Inc. for all you do for young girls all over the world. We appreciate you!
Love,
Kelsey D. Wright
Composting at Girls Inc
As part of the TechBridge program, Girls Inc teens have been making compost. Girls and staff have been collecting and preparing organic materials (egg shells, coffee grounds, fruit peels), and they haven’t been doing it alone: they’ve had a little help from some worms.
Once the worms have finish eating their “worm food,” Ms. Jen will send a fertilized soil sample to a soil testing company to analyze its mineral content.
In the spring, girls will use the compost to fertilize plants in the Girls Inc garden. They will also grow plants in unfertilized soil, and in soil fertlized with manure. This way, girls and staff can observe compare the effect that different fertilizers have on plant growth.
Check back to see our finished compost!
A Mentor’s Experience
Well over a year ago I had expressed an interest in the mentoring program at Girls’ Inc., but this was prior to Megan Oberymeyer’s wonderful coordination of the group. So I must admit I was a little hesitant to get involved when Meghan contacted me last fall–until I had a very warm and open conversation with her. I attended an orientation of sorts with her last October and she did her magic and matched me with a wonderful 14-year-old girl, Amina Abdullahi (it only took me a few weeks to pronounce this correctly), who came to the United States with her family from Kenya when she was 7 years old.
She is in the 8th grade at Bryan Middle School and has 6 brothers and sisters. She loves art and tacos. This is basically the information I had before meeting her in late November. Meghan set a meeting up with Amina, her, and myself. I had never been to the South annex of Girls’ Inc. before so I was actually a bit nervous about the whole thing but Amina is such a warm and friendly young lady that it went “swimmingly”.
The first weekend in December the local “Hot Shops” artist coop has an open house; so remembering Amina likes art, I asked her to go with a friend and me. It was interesting to see what some of the current local trends are with some of the artists and I think Amina enjoyed it.
In an effort to keep communication going, I would call her a couple of times a week to see how she was doing. She talked a lot about her art classes in school. They were studying Georgia O’Keefe and she was very interested in the various aspects involved in the flowers. I was impressed with her art teacher’s assignment for the students to draw all the different parts of the flowers, before drawing the entire thing. Amina enjoyed this too.
After the holiday, Amina and I went down to Lauritzen Gardens to see the poinsettia display, indoor train display, and have lunch. I took her a book on Georgia O’Keefe that had been my mom’s. At the same time, she presented me with one of her beautiful drawings of a large flower—much like the O’Keefe style. I was so terribly touched. So much so, that I told her I am working on having it framed. I learned something I should have known all along, and that is that Amina is Muslim and does not eat pork (Duh!). Somehow this fact slipped my mind so I was newly informed when she turned down a ham sandwich. (My ignorance at some of the cultural differences amazes me.)
After seeing the movie, “Les Miserables,” I thought it would be a great movie to take Amina to so we had coffee/cupcakes at Jones St. and went to the movie at Aksarben. Halfway through the movie, I was worried that a 14 year old might be a little bored with it, but at the end she said she loved it. A few weeks later, Amina, her sister, and I went to the opening weekend at Film Streams of “Chasing Ice,” a documentary about global warming and the frightening meltdown of the glaciers. Both of us were blown away by the photography, and I was interested in exposing her to the global warming issues. I was pleased to learn they have been talking about it in their science classes.
We both enjoyed going to the Mentor/Mentee dinner at Olive Garden, compliments of Girls’ Inc. I picked Amina up early and brought her to my house (not far from Olive Garden) to hang out a little bit and yak. I had also gotten an artist’s toolbox and filled it with some odds and ends that an artist friend of mine had suggested because Amina had talked about doing some drawing at Girls’ Inc. and I would like to encourage her to continue to embrace her talent.
She was so thrilled. Also, I wanted her to have the chance to meet my two dogs, which are such an important part of our family but boy, did I learn another cultural difference! Amina can’t touch dogs because they view them a lot like pigs—it is not totally clear to me, but I respected this and kept the dogs outside.
All in all, I have enjoyed getting to know Amina better. I have two children entering adulthood so at 58 years of age, I was not sure what I could really offer but I have quickly learned how much we both can teach one another.
Amina is a very outgoing, talkative, at ease young lady. I have so little knowledge or understanding of her culture but I try and be an encouraging ear and support. We talk a lot about her family, her interests, which are so different than mine—not in a bad way, just different. (I had no idea there were entire Bollywood and Nollywood movies and actors.)
Amina has begun calling me regularly to share things from school (she made honor roll!, and is participating in an art show competition at school). She even called me after a weekend I was out of town just to say she had missed me, which about blew me away. I look forward to the new experiences ahead.
Summer Memories
During the summer I had such a great time with all the other girls at Girls Inc. We attended many field trips, and we enjoyed our time there. I got the opportunity to go to the Omaha Doorly Zoo, the ice skate arena, golfing, and the swimming lessons at Spring Lake pool. Out of all of them my most favorite trip was to the Spring Lake pool. Even though, going into the pool, I already knew how to swim I still learned a lot during the lessons. I even overcame my biggest fear of heights, by going off the high dive! I got to spend the whole morning in the pool, and nothing could have been better than that!
I loved going ice skating as a little girl, and going back to the ice arena really made me feel like a kid again. Even though I fell once or twice and I was freezing, I still had a great time! Even the younger girls, who were afraid of falling had fun. It was a fun experience for me and all the girls of Girls Inc.
Every kid should go to the Omaha Doorly Zoo at least once in their childhood. And I am glad that the younger girls got to go. My favorite part of the trip was going into the jungle. We saw a bunch of animals one wouldn’t normally see every day. The aquarium was my next favorite part of the zoo. I love going to see the penguins, and the jellyfishes. – Gabbi
The Luminaria
I felt like I was in a big kaleidescope. – Tanajah
I liked the Luminaria because of the way the colors changed our clothes…it was very fun and inspiring. The lights were beautiful and mostly bright. My favorite color was the purple and green one. It was amazing to sit down and look up and see the pretty colors. During the walk, I noticed that some were kind of dard and that was cool. – Ashli
We were all amazed at the middle room because it was a mixture of all the colors. I think the really cool thing was that it was a big balloon and we had to shut the door really fast so all the air doesn’t come out! – Samantha
I felt like I was in the brightest star ever. It shined so bright! It was one of the prettiest things I’d ever seen…To me it was kind of like a starship. – DaNya
Thanks to Vic Gutman & Associates for providing this cool field trip for the girls.
Outward Bound Urban Expedition
DAY 1
On May 27, 2012 I left Girls Inc. not really knowing what I was getting into. I knew it was an expedition which was 2 days. I also knew we were staying at a church. That’s all I really knew. But as I continued, I learned and saw some pretty cool things. – Deja
While I was on the Expedition we visited places I would never have imagined or stepped foot in. Like for instance, Kent Bellows Studio. – Ladayshianae
That day we first went to Kent Bellows Art Gallery and painted. We met Anne who is an arts administrator. – Deja
We each got weird shaped pieces and we got to paint whatever we wanted. Once we were finished, we pieced it together and it made the shape of a heart. After we cleaned up we had lunch at Leavenworth Park. Unfortunately, we missed our bus, so we had to catch another bus. We got dropped off in Midtown Crossing and walked to a store called Inclosed. Inclosed is a store that is in the wedding invitation business. We met Leslie, Candace, and Meagan. Leslie is the owner of Inclosed. Candace is the wedding event planner. And Meagan owns her own bouquet shop called PrincessLazortron. She fixes bouquets for brides and bridesmaids. Next we got to create a party invitation on a posterboard using magazines. – Elijahiana
We learned what it takes to get to the top. And when we get to the top, we learned not to back down. – Ladayshianae
Then we took a short distance walk to Film Streams. Film Streams is a non-profit organization that shows special movies like classics and documentaries. We met Rachel Jacobson who is the director/founder of Film Streams. Film Streams only has 2 theaters. We got the chance to examine the 2 theatres and the projection rooms. – Elijahiana
We learned about how Film Streams started and what they play there. – Maggie
Film Streams is an awesome place. – Ladayshianae
We got to go to Red Mango. Red Mango sells frozen yogurt and you could add any topping you want. Once done with the treat, we took the bus back to Midtown Crossing and walked to the Farmer’s Market. Our challenge was we had to buy organic produce and we had to try to find one thing we never tried before, by using only $20. – Elijahiana
We were given $20 and had to decide as a group how to spend it wisely on organic food and use those foods to create our dinner. We had rice and beans provided so we had to make something to go with it. It was fun and new for me because I have never been to one of these before. Our dinner was garlic rice and beans with a zesty salsa and fruit salad which were all things from the market. – Deja
We all collected fruits and vegetables, and we decided to try kohlrabi. Kohnlrabi is like a green potato-like thing. – Elijahiana
The most fun was picking out the food that no one had tried which was kohlrabi. We fried some, then boiled some in water, spices, and honey. It was good both ways. When we were buying the food everyone wanted to be in charge so for me that was the hardest. – Ladayshianae
We had to have a few people navigate the bus times and where to go by bus numbers while others went to go cook. Once dinner was ready, we all ate. – Elijahiana
DAY 2
We went to the City Hall. Once we walked off the bus, we were assigned a challenge. We had a scavanger hunt. We met the Mayor and got a baseball card with his autograph. Then we met other employees who told us about their challenges. – Elijahiana
We talked to Buster Brown, the Mayor, and Diane Battiano. They told us about how to be succesful in their positions. – Maggie
We learned about the government system and about things like deeds and city planning. We explored City Hall. We also learned about a program called ReEnergize. – Deja
We met Eric, who showed us than an LED light buld saves more money than a regular light bulb and lasts longer. – Elijahiana
Next, we went to see the Trugs on Leavenworth. – Maggie
We went to Leavenworth and 27th and talked to businesses and people about the Trugs, a bench-like thing they put there to promote the Leavenworth neighborhood and celebrate their community. – Deja
We talked to another Anne, who was a part of Emerging Terrain. She explained to us how the Trugs made communities look better. We had to ask other businesses about what they thought of the Trugs. Some people said it was good for the community. Others said it was ruining business and traffic can’t see them. – Elijahiana
DAY 3
We made shirts and posters telling what we did. When we were done, we went to the downtown slides and Old Market to survey people. We asked people what they would change about Omaha. Some said parking, more police officers, less violence. Other people said there is really nothing to change….We headed back to the bus stop and went to [Omaha Home for Boys]. We had pizza for lunch and set up everything for graduation. Once graduation started, we presented and told people about what we did. A special presentation was put on — we each told about where we went. We nearly made the goal for points and we got pins. We all enjoyed the camp! – Elijahiana
I felt that the most challenging thing was to carry those packs or book bags which were heavy. But as far as that, I really enjoyed myself and would love to come back. – Deja
During the Expedition, I learned very important things. I had to learn not to care what other people think because as we were walking through Omaha, we were required to haul around these big hiking bags. people asked us [about them] but we just told them they were for our Urban Expedition. ..One value I got from this trip was to not be so independent. Like I learned that it’s OK to sometimes ask for help. And I had to realize that I was with a group and couldn’t do my own thing….Through the whole Expedition, I gained a lot. Now that I went, I have new tools to help me through my journey. So I thank everyone who helped put this together for letting me be able to be a part of this. Thank you. – Ladayshianae
TRUGS
KOHLRABI
Bullying
The girls watched this video about Johan Mowry being bullied: http://goo.gl/F2lvI. Then they wrote advice and letters to Jonah.
Hey Jonah-
I can understand how you feel. I get bullied, too. I know someone who cut. You shouldn’t have to go that route. You could really hurt yourself. It’s OK. You can make it through. You should try writing poems. That’s what I do. It helps me empty out my feelings. It’s like I am a new person. I many not know you Jonah but I have a feeling you can find something else other than cutting. You put your life on the line when you cut. Do me a favor and try not to cut again. – Ashley
Dear Jonah,
Don’t even bother with those people. They are haters and what you are is a very special person. You are yourself. They probably feel bad about themselves. They haven’t seen the inside of the book, they just looked ta the cover. You are wonderfully made in your own way. – Salera
Dear Jonah.
As your friend, please don’t listen to mean people. You should not let them get to you. Tell a teacher or talk to a friend. You are stronger than that so JUST BE YOURSELF.
Dear Jonah,
It is OK. Believe it or not you are not the only one that gets bullied. It’s not fair for the victim of the problem. They probably bully you and other people to make them feel better about themselves.
Dear Jonah,
Sometimes I get bullied about my hair, my skin, my clothes, but then I met some friends and they stood up for me. I stood up for them. And yes! I did kinda bully that’s only because they hurt me so what I say is it’s “Back fire time!” but my friends would say “NO! It’s not worth it.” I took their advice and whne I stopped, they stopped.
If I were Jonah’s friend I would always encourage him to never give up no matter how many things that go on in his life. He should never give up on life. I would help him through his problems. I would start a club for people just like Jonah and other people. I would tell him they’re jealous and the only reason they do that is because something’s wrong with them. I would tell him: the song called “You are beautiful.” – Ziann
I would say just ignore them and tell an adult. – Jeriona
It will be OK. You are who you are. Don’t care what other people say. You are fine the way you are. You can just ignore them and come play with me.
Dear Jonah,
I know you’ve been put down and bullied a lot, but don’t listen. Just a few minutes ago I got called ugly. I know I’m beautiful and I believe that. They’re just jealous and hatin’. One day those bullies will be punished. Just think that. Wish you wonderful things. – Anneliese
Dear Jonah,
Just live your life and there are people who care about you. What you think of you is what matters. – Teondra
What I would say to Jonah if I were his friend – i would say I’m your friend. Ignore people. be strong. You’re a good person. Don’t let people get to you. – Jennile
Just remember we’ll all be here for you. – Arian
Don’t worry about what they say. It’s not true. I will always be your friend. You did not do anything wrong to them. They are just jealous of your greatness. Just don’t worry. They just don’t know how hurt you feel. – Tyana
If I was your friend I would have your back and be by your side no matter what. Brush it off. – Alaunys
Dear Jonah,
I know what you’re going through. I get bullied every day. Sometimes the best you can do is ignore it. If people call you stupid try saying, “If I’m so dumb let me see your report card.” People will freeze if you say that. If a girl picks on you say, “Stop flirting.” If it’s a boy say, “Stop hatin’.”…I know you can do it. Go Jonah! – Janeshja
I’ll be here with you all the way. You won’t hurt or have to cry any more. I know there are very violent people out there. Don’t let people get to you. Either they like you or they are jealous of you. I know you may want to hurt yourself…I wish you all I have. – Amari
Humanitarian Dinner – thank you David Slosburg!
“I appreciated the opportunity of being able to attend the annual Humanitarian dinner. It was great listening to the motivational speakers and their ideas. Marlee Matlin was one of my favorite speakers. I love how she doesn’t let her disbaility get in the way of achieving her goals and adventures. I thought it was an honor to be able to go to the dinner. The food was great, the speakers were fantastic, and I would like to say thank you so much for letting Girls Inc. members experience something inspirational.” – Yadira
“When I left the Humanitarian dinner I felt special and strong.” – Leslie
“The food was extraordinary, the speakers were grand, and the videos were very informative. Thank you also for showing us we can live in a world of peace and joy…” – Victoria
“One of your speakers was a deaf girl and she taught us how to say “courage plus dreams = success.” – Chanecia
“I am glad I was one of the chosen ones to attend this event.” – Brianna
“I liked Marlee Matlin and Henry Winkler’s speeches. Also it was cool that the weather man gave us the forcast for the eventing. Futhermore, I loved the food and the dessert. The chicken ws fantastic! There were fancy decorations on the table with all the proper utensils. Most of all I really enjoyed the speakers and watching people receive medals.” – Nadeja
¡Yadira, Girls Inc. está orgullosa de usted!
I would be a great Cinco de Mayo Queen because I have the motivation that is needed to achieve great things in our community. I am also committed to helping to improve our community. I understand that we, the young people, have the power to change the future and I am ready to begin.
For years I have made it a point to take leadership roles. The first step I took in that direction was joining Girls Incorporated of Omaha. They believe in young women like me and help me to be strong, smart, and bold. With their help I have achieved great things like becoming a board member, traveling the United States, and meeting the First Lady of the United States, Michelle Obama. I have also done leadership camps, drama camps, and participated in Corporate Camp. Corporate Camp is a camp where a group of 4 to 5 girls ages 13 to18 work together to create a small business. This camp teaches leadership, teamwork and a specific responsibility. I was in charge of the public relations part of it and even thought we did not win, we received 2nd place.
From all of these opportunities provided by Girls Inc., I’ve learned how to be a team player, how to resolve conflicts that may arise with teammates, and how to be a leader. I also learned organizational skill, time management, and public speaking. At school, I show leadership qualities when participating in class projects or group presentations.
I believe that becoming the Cinco de Mayo Queen will take me in the right direction to better my future and those around me because I will have the opportunity to be a role model for others. I am proud to participate in an organization that helps keep our Mexican history alive—not just in the textbooks.
I am grateful to be given the opportunity to be a part of such wonderful programs such as this. I will continue to strive for success and find ways to help out where I may be needed. I hope to hear the great news from you soon.
Thank you,
Yadira Cardenas
